The semester has almost started again, and I’m preparing for my new students by looking at my roster and systematically judging each and every student based only on their pictures. They’re smiling faces look up at me from my screen, and I cast my evaluative glare upon them, weighing, measuring, and guessing who each of them will be.

All my life, teachers have told me they don’t have favorite students. As a student, I figured that just meant I definitely wasn’t their favorite, and they saved the truth for the students they loved more than me. Now that I’m a teacher, I can say without a shadow of a doubt that not only do teachers have favorites, but they also do a myriad of other less-than-admirable things that no students ever learn about.
For example, I co-taught with a friend last semester, and we looked at our roster before ever meeting our class and took bets on which students fit into which classroom stereotype. The boy with the smug smile would be the class’s resident asshole. The reserved-looking girl would be the quiet type who gets her work done but doesn’t ask enough questions. The other guy with the smug smile would be the other class asshole–apparently, you can have more than one. We looked through the list of students and relentlessly judged them based on zero information other than how they looked for a split second in front of a camera. Of course, these guesses about our students never influenced how we worked with them. That is, it didn’t influence it until we were proven unequivocally correct which just shows that some deplorable acts are also entertaining and quite useful.

Sometimes I’ll be watching a show or reading a book, and I’ll think to myself “golly, these two characters sure do have some chemistry, I wish they’d be together,” but the story never progresses in the way I want, and the characters remain tragically separate. Other obsessive fans found an answer for my frustrations and made fanfiction into a thing. If you’re not familiar with fanfiction, then good for you, and please continue with your life uninhibited by the knowledge that there are people in the world who devote themselves to finding new ways to write stories on such highbrow topics as Sherlock Holmes getting intimate with Sonic the Hedgehog. I mention fanfiction only because the god complex of every fan author fits decently with how I go into the semester. I see potential, and I abuse my power because I want to see if that potential can grow. All this is to say that I can see what all my students are studying, and I put them into their first groups based on combinations of majors I think could be interesting to hear interact. It’s only later in the semester, once I know my students well, that I put them into groups based on who I think they should date.

One thing that alarms me is that now I know just how common it is for teachers to do exactly what I’m doing now: looking down the roster and evaluating their students based on very little information. I don’t photograph well (a side-effect of not looking well either), so that means a lot of teachers have looked at me, judged me, and probably assumed some damming and accurate things about my character.
I absolutely loved everything about this post. It’s true that we loved to look at a faces and speculation. You’re performing on a higher lever, and that should be the goal of every educator. Our school district never managed to get the photos in with the roster in time for the first day, so we were stuck going old-fashioned day of, face to face evaluation. It’s high pressure. You keep making bets and getting it right!
p.s. There’s a tiny typo under the last picture. As a teacher who’s been there, thought you might like to know. Anyway, great post. I’m thoroughly entertained.
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Thank you! I can’t imagine why I didn’t catch that, but it’s going to bug me until I die from shame
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Haha, I’ve had worse. Typo on the board during open house! I almost quit my job. 😂 I wasn’t sure if I should say something and look petty, but I know if appreciate it. Don’t die. We need awesome people.
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I’m much happier that you mentioned it. What if I died and that typo was my legacy!
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Hahaha, I’ve considered these sorts of things as well. 😄
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okay, i’m scared now, I am never posting another selfie to my blog, you might judge me 🙂
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I would never judge another blogger… never ever…
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You are very funny. Which helps if you are a teacher.
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Thanks!
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Maybe you should have the class face backwards like the blind auditions on The Voice so you only judge them by what comes out of their mouths instead of by the smug look on their little a-hole faces. 🤓
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If I could just have them do that the entire semester, that would be perfect
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Slightly odd, but in the interest of not judging…
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Nice suggestion! But either way they are doomed. What comes out of their mouths is equally as ridiculous as their smug faces! Lol
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From my own teaching experience, I can only confirm that you’re right, of course teachers have favourites (and not-favourites)! Also, it’s so fun to judge the book by the cover (and then get affirmed in your judgement when someone turns out exactly as you guessed they would).
My only inconsequential complaint is that your wonderful blog content reads so bad for me against the black background, which is the only reason why I don’t read the whole blog at once right now.
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It’s encouraging to hear how many others shamelessly had favorite students.
Hmm I’m not sure why it would be showing up as all black. I think my blog runs decently on most browsers, but there might be one it is less accessible on. Chrome seems to work decently
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Never mind, I’ll be reading your posts in my Reader now that I followed your blog, so problem solved 😀 Good luck in the new school year! I’m looking forward to reading more of your teaching exploits.
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Love this, so funny. Whenever my mom has new students she reads all the names out to me, and sometimes they’re siblings of kids she already taught. In those cases she’s always got a preconceived notion of the kid – but she’s usually right!!
Kathrin — http://mycupofenglishtea.wordpress.com
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It’s impossible not to enjoy pre-judging. I haven’t had any siblings yet, but I look forward to it one day
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